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Offending Religious People

I am presently teaching twice a week, using Philip Yancey’s book “The Jesus I Never Knew” as a starting point. There is so much good material in that book and many years ago it began the long process of deprogramming the Jesus my religious culture gave and set me on a course of discovery.

As I was preparing to teach this week, I came across this quote by Tim Keller:

“Jesus’ teaching consistently attracted the irreligious while offending the Bible-believing, religious people of his day. However, in the main our churches today do not have this effect.

The kind of outsiders Jesus attracted are not attracted to contemporary churches, even our most avant-garde ones. We tend to draw conservative, buttoned-down, moralistic people. The licentious and liberated or the broken and marginal avoid church. That can only mean one thing.

If the preaching of our ministers and the practice of our parishioners doesn’t have the same effect on people that Jesus had, then we must not be declaring the same message that Jesus did.

If our churches aren’t appealing to younger brothers, they must be more full of elder brothers than we’d like to think.”

In “The Jesus I Never Knew” Yancey says something similar:

“In view of Jesus’ clear example, how is it that the church has now become a community of respectability, where the down-and-out no longer feel welcome? The middle-class church many of us know today bears little resemblance to the diverse group of social rejects described in the Gospels and the book of Acts.”

These are wonderful insights, but they remain only that unless we take action.  “Attractional” is a buzzword we use when discussing church growth. Ironically, this strategy usually focuses on attracting the attractive.

We generally don’t like this strategy because it smells too much of consumerist pandering, but what if we made our churches more attractional, with one crucial difference: we would seek to attract the undesirables of our town and community.

And if we were actually successful in attracting these people, how would we handle the chaos? The unruly behavior? The smell? The smoke? The talk around town?

How can we be more like Jesus in attracting sinners?

  • http://www.rootedradical.wordpress.com Jason Postma

    Excellent post!

    Now, how are we going to answer that question, especially from the pulpit?

  • John Hiebert

    Great post!!

    But the thing is our (church’s) are becoming a big joke! sorry to say it like that, but what else is it when we come to church use lip service pat our selves on the back and pount the finger at others!!

    The other thing is how do we atract the broken and lost simple we love them, we take our flesh put it aside, talk to them and listen like we really care, and if Christ is in us that will flow out of us.

    Sorry but if we do not stop doin church the way we do, there will not be room for God because we take the drivers seat thinkin we went to school we know how to teach others and most do but, Gods love is still missing and that is what the broken see, we say it but we do not mean it!!!! we teach it but do not live it!

  • http://www.michaelkrahn.com/blog Michael Krahn

    Lots of good interaction going on about this post on Facebook:

    Kevin Abell says:
    I’m not exactly sure what manner of changes one would propose. I’m hearing what you are saying, but I really don’t have the answers.

    Anita says:
    Maybe we should start by going to them, befriending them and sharing our everyday lives with them …

    Hellen says:
    You guys have a great example right near you there in T.O. Check out: http://www.amazon.ca/God-Alley-Being-Seeing-Broken/dp/0877880921

    Was researching something else and came upon these verses that reminded me of this thread: I Corinthians 9:19-23 Even though I am free of the demands and expectations of everyone, I have voluntarily become a servant to any and all in order to reach a wide range of people: religious, nonreligious, meticulous moralists, loose-living immoralists, , the defeated, the demoralized—whoever. I didn’t take on their way of life. I kept my bearings in Christ—but I entered their world and tried to experience things from their point of view. I’ve become just about every sort of servant there is in my attempts to lead those I meet into a God-saved life. I did all this because of the Message. I didn’t just want to talk about it; I wanted to be in on it!

    Mark says:
    Maybe you should start by not calling people “undesirable” – just because they don’t plug well into a “system” — labeling anyone in that manner will never build community as people who feel they are desirable will always feel superior to the ones labeled undesirable and so the cycle will continue.

    Gloria says:
    Maybe we’re supposed to go out to them and not just try to attract them.

  • http://www.michaelkrahn.com/blog Michael Krahn

    I’m excited to have a bunch of Aylmerites commenting here who obviously have a passion for this. Could this be the beginning of a coalition? Yes?

    Kev – think crazy thoughts.

    Helen, thanks for the book recommendation.

    Anita – strategies for implementation? Are you thinking of moving into town?

    Mark – point taken, although Jesus didn’t seem to have a problem with describing people as “sick” and “sinners” and plenty of genuine community developed around him. (I am using “undesirable” here as a term to induce guilt not in “them” but in “us”.)

    Gloria, I agree… as long as we remember to do both. Jesus certainly went to people, but people were also attracted to him… sometimes 5000-10,000 at a time.

    Now, once we have some practical suggestions, who’s up for implementing them in Aylmer?

  • http://www.michaelkrahn.com/blog Michael Krahn

    John,

    Hopefully you see me pointing a finger at myself as often as I point at anything else.

    I don’t believe our church is a big joke. Yes, there are probably people there that pat themselves on the back and point at the wrongs of others. The only way to change that is to be there, to correct it when you see it, and to confess it when you do it – because we’re all guilty of it.

    But of course there is a whole lot more than that going on. There are people who are loving til it hurts and making life decisions that reflect that.

  • http://www.rootedradical.wordpress.com Jason Postma

    It is easier as individuals to live a more “missional” lifestyle (I am using missional in a very broad sense).
    However, it takes a fundamental culture shift within a congregation to mobilize a church toward a “missional” posture. In my brief time as a pastor in Aylmer, there are many individuals who are intrigued by reaching out to “non-churched” people (a terrible term), but few if any congregations have understood mission as their raison d’etre – church is for people of the same cultural and economic background to worship and socialize, thus serving the same function as any other “secular” social organization (I am using “worship” here very broadly). Until churches in Aylmer and elsewhere are willing to do the hard work of changing their internal culture in order to reclaim the fundamental mission of the church, we will have a hard time being a people and a place that is welcoming to everyone.

  • http://www.michaelkrahn.com/blog Michael Krahn

    @Jason Postma: Amen my friend!